Updated: Jun 8
Alfie Kohn , the author of Unconditional Parenting provides some really deep insights about parenting and our schooling system.
Alfie stresses that most of the times parents only want "compliance" which is detrimental to children. The tools we use for compliance are almost , always "Rewards and Punishments". He beautifully explains the danger of using rewards and punishments to gain compliance of children. He also offer few alternatives to deal with children. Alfie Kohn has got really good insights that will help parents become better parents. Here is one of his video -